I intensely dislike being around negative people because they make me feel as bad as they do. I only want to be around people who are upbeat and have a positive outlook on life.
However, whenever I’m around someone who is negative or has a bad personality, they remind me how happy I am that I’m not like them.
Disappointments are difficult to accept. And a broken heart is the deepest pain we will ever experience. . None of us get out of life without experiencing deep emotional pain.
The person who wants to commit suicide after a relationship breakup is out of control emotionally and not thinking properly. Embrace your disappointments so you can turn them into a better life.
The resilience to overcome has a lot to do with your attitude. Your fruitless efforts are because you are trying for the wrong things. The relationship that ended was to make room for one that will last. The job you didn’t get was because there is a better one meant just for you. The dreams that didn’t work were the wrong dreams. And the life that didn’t happen the way you hoped it would is to be recreated with a better life more authentic with who you are.
There’s always another tomorrow, another relationship, a better job, new dreams and a richer life waiting to be created.
But you have to adopt the proper attitude to believe this.
People talk about the reality of their life as if it is important. And we want you to understand, it’s only the temporary indicator. Do you go to the gas station—your gas gauge is on empty—do you go to the gas station and look at your gas gauge in horror? “How did this happen? [Fun] Why, why, why did this happen to me?” Do you lay your head on the steering wheel and just sob? “Oh, look what it’s come to. [Fun] I’m finished. I’ve lived all of this life, and look where I am.”
I’m thinking about miracles today…it’s a great day for Miracles. Miracles are all around us but we often pass them off as coincidence or miss them all together because we can’t understand how they work…or that they even exist. I’m thankful for the miracle of life, for the miracle of my family and my pets. I’m thankful for the miracle of rain today after the long scorching summer… the heat seemed endless. I love watching the rain…it’s so peaceful. I’m thankful for the miracle of health…that I can enjoy life in a healthy body. I’m thankful for another day. I’m thankful for the miracle of second chances. And I’m watching for more miracles. You have to believe in miracles.
“You have to take risks…ask a good looking man for his phone number, send the resume to your dream job, buy a lottery ticket…life doesn’t happen unless you take chances. You won’t get a second chance so you open yourself up to the possibility.
