Sometimes when we try over and over for something that simply isn’t working out, it’s because we are trying for the wrong thing, in the wrong way, or for the wrong reason.
Too many people are so busy living routine and surviving that they are not enjoying life. They put life on hold because they can always do it tomorrow. They spend too much time getting ready to get ready instead of taking action today. They wait until the time is perfect or the storm is over. They are not creating the life they dream about. And as the years pass by, the dreams seem even further into the future.
Disappointments are difficult to accept. And a broken heart is the deepest pain we will ever experience. . None of us get out of life without experiencing deep emotional pain.
The person who wants to commit suicide after a relationship breakup is out of control emotionally and not thinking properly. Embrace your disappointments so you can turn them into a better life.
The resilience to overcome has a lot to do with your attitude. Your fruitless efforts are because you are trying for the wrong things. The relationship that ended was to make room for one that will last. The job you didn’t get was because there is a better one meant just for you. The dreams that didn’t work were the wrong dreams. And the life that didn’t happen the way you hoped it would is to be recreated with a better life more authentic with who you are.
There’s always another tomorrow, another relationship, a better job, new dreams and a richer life waiting to be created.
But you have to adopt the proper attitude to believe this.
Never, ever underestimate the power of your words.
The power of your words are too strong to ignore. They can destroy or strengthen a relationship, a mind, a heart, a life. They can break a home, a person, a soul. And once harmful words are spoken, they can change the trajectory of your life forever.
But to inspire, encourage, love and motivate a person with your words can change their life for the better and heal.
“Death and Life are in the power of the tongue”
(Prov. 18:21)
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“People don’t value what they don’t earn, pay for, work for or invest in”
Velinda
Be careful what you give to your children without having them earn it. If they are given too much without earning it, they will grow to always expect a hand out. They will not develop into someone who knows how to survive on their own and make life happen. They do not become self-sufficient. One of the best things you can do for your children is teach them how to live life on their own.
There is something so precious about trust. When my daughter gives her cat a bath to get rid of the fleas, he looks up at her with complete trust in his eyes as if to say, “I don’t know why you are doing this horrible thing to me, but I know you love me so I trust you”.
When we violate trust, it is sometimes everlasting and very hard to forgive. Even when we do forgive, it takes forever to rebuild.
Great relationships are built on love, trust, friendship, respect, and communication to name a few. When you violate trust, you tear away at all the values of a relationship.
Think twice before you violating trust in someone you love. Relationships are more important than anything.
There is something very beautiful that can be found at bottom. Rock bottom is when you are free. There’s nothing left to lose. You’re free to start over. You can do anything you want. You can be anything you want. There’s nothing holding you back. It’s a time for reflection and change. It’s another chance with an open canvas. And there is a whole new life waiting.
