All posts by VELINDA

Brandon and Jenna's Mom, a spiritual entrepreneur, philanthropist, animal and nature lover, and author with a financial consultant background.  My passion is turning my past experiences and wisdom into a springboard for helping people through my websites, presentations, and books.  I am the founder of Life Talks, Positive Thoughts on Life, and This Is Not Brandon websites. Why I do this:  I am dedicated to making this world a better place by helping people change and recreate their lives after tragedy.  I do this because I know that no one has to suffer and live in lack no matter what their past may have been, how long it may have been, or what your current circumstances are.  It is my own past and experience that drives me to this purpose.  There is no better teacher and no replacement for experience.

You are a Great Person

“If you are a great person and you go out on a date with someone who doesn’t want to see you again, you are still a great person the next day”  Unknown

Life Itself is Risky

“Life itself is risky.  If I put up fences to keep out risk, I will also keep life out.  I will not forego the next ten minutes of happiness on the premise that in eleven minutes there may be pain” Unknown

Believe you Deserve it

“You’ll never get something in your life unless you believe you deserve it.  You have to believe and fall in love with yourself.  Believe in yourself, your worth, your value”  Dr.  Phil

Allow Life to Happen

“Allow life to happen. Accept reality and the natural order and destiny of things…that there is a reason you don’t fully understand yet. Sometimes the strangest and most painful things work out for the best. All will be well, better than you think.”

“Set goals:  In setting goals you cause things to happen and change. You accomplish projects, meet people, find yourself, change, go to interesting places, problems get solved, needs and wants get met and dreams come true. You go in the right direction. Goals give directions and purpose. If things don’t go as planned, that is where acceptance, trust, faith, and letting go come in. Goals set into motion a powerful psychological, spiritual, and emotional force. You do what you need to do, things begin to happen and things begin to come to us.”

“In setting goals, be patient and trust in God’s timing. Don’t take a goal off your list just because it hasn’t happened yet. Sometimes it takes years. It just hasn’t happened yet. Things happen when the time is right…when you’re ready, when God is ready, when the world is ready. Give up, let go, but keep the goal on your list.”

Melody Beattie

Photo by:  Peter Lik

After a while…

After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul
and you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning and company doesn’t always mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren’t contracts and presents aren’t promises
and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of woman, not the grief of a child
And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow’s ground is
too uncertain for plans and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much
so you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul instead of
waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure you really are strong you really do have worth
and you learn and you learn with every goodbye, you learn  

Veronica A. Shoffstall

 

Easter Conversations

When my son was four years old, on Easter morning he told me about the conversation he had with the Easter Bunny the night before.  Now, almost twenty years later, our conversations are very different.  Enjoy those precious little childhood conversations  because they go by so fast.  Happy Easter

Please join my new site

Please join my new website!  Same inspiration as Positive Thoughts on Life plus more.

My new site will replace Positive Thoughts on Life, however this site will remain visible.  Thank you all so much

www.velindapeyton.com

FREE on Wednesday…

This Wednesday, March 28th, my book will be featured on Kindle Nation Daily and will be FREE for the entire day to anyone who wants to download it as an ebook. It can be downloaded to a Kindle or directly onto the computer.  I have had great reviews and great comments from people still reading it.  I guarantee everyone who reads it will gain inspiration from it. For more: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0077SF3GY   website:  http://www.velindapeyton.com