All posts by VELINDA

Brandon and Jenna's Mom, a spiritual entrepreneur, philanthropist, animal and nature lover, and author with a financial consultant background.  My passion is turning my past experiences and wisdom into a springboard for helping people through my websites, presentations, and books.  I am the founder of Life Talks, Positive Thoughts on Life, and This Is Not Brandon websites. Why I do this:  I am dedicated to making this world a better place by helping people change and recreate their lives after tragedy.  I do this because I know that no one has to suffer and live in lack no matter what their past may have been, how long it may have been, or what your current circumstances are.  It is my own past and experience that drives me to this purpose.  There is no better teacher and no replacement for experience.

Stop Allowing Fear to Rule Your Life

Stop allowing your fears to rule your life.  

Life is about lessons and fear is a part of that…perhaps only lessons you didn’t learn well. 

But fears will hold you back and keep you a prisoner in your own world. 

They are a story you tell yourself that you have accepted whether there is any truth or not.

The answer to your fears is to tell yourself a different story…one that says

“I don’t want to be afraid anymore, and I will not be dominated by fear”

Nothing binds you fears beliefs

This is a Brand New Day

No matter what your disappointments or challenges from the past may have been, This is a Brand New Day. 

Dream bigger, try again, have faith, envision your life the way you want it to be. The bigger your vision, the bigger your life

We settle for what is as though we have no power.  We don’t dream beyond our environment and settle for a habitual way of thinking, believing or behaving and living.  That may be fine for some, but too small for you.  

Surround yourself with your dreams and an atmosphere of success. Vision can be limited by the wrong environment. Associate with people who are big thinkers and big dreamers as they will support your vision. People who build you up not tear you down.  People who have an open mind not small thoughts.

Sometimes it takes years to realize your dream.  This is the hardest part.  This is the time where faith and courage are tested.  Remember it’s a big world out there full of opportunity and abundance.  It’s with those first steps, in the times of growth and waiting, that the seeds are planted.

In the end you are only limited by your own thoughts.  You have to make your dreams and visions bigger than your fears and have the courage to see them through.

So today instead of just dreaming your dream, start living it.

The best things come to those who don’t give up.

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Treat ME how You want Me to Treat YOU

My attitude towards YOU will always be based on how

YOU treat ME

Treat me well and I will stay

Treat me badly and I will leave

Treat me with love, respect, kindness and consideration

and I will treat you the same

Treat ME how you want me to treat YOU

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