All posts by VELINDA

Brandon and Jenna's Mom, a spiritual entrepreneur, philanthropist, animal and nature lover, and author with a financial consultant background.  My passion is turning my past experiences and wisdom into a springboard for helping people through my websites, presentations, and books.  I am the founder of Life Talks, Positive Thoughts on Life, and This Is Not Brandon websites. Why I do this:  I am dedicated to making this world a better place by helping people change and recreate their lives after tragedy.  I do this because I know that no one has to suffer and live in lack no matter what their past may have been, how long it may have been, or what your current circumstances are.  It is my own past and experience that drives me to this purpose.  There is no better teacher and no replacement for experience.

Your Life can change in an instant ~ maybe today

Imagine the power to change your world simply by changing what you believe in your heart and your mind.

We are never more than a belief away from our greatest love, deepest healing, and most profound miracles.  Gregg Braden

People can blossom in their greatest strengths rather than shrivel in their occasional weaknesses.  When we accept our own perfection instead of focusing on the inadequacies that others are quick to point out to us, we experience healing for ourselves.  Suddenly everything that we ever imagined and things we never considered become possible within this way of thinking.  Gregg Braden

You know what you want, now you know how to get it.

Love changes Everything

“Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness”
Oliver Wendell Holmes

Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil,
but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
I Corinthians 13:4-8

Fall in Love with Life

When you fall in love with life, every limitation disappears.  You break the limitations on money, health, happiness, and limits of joy in your relationship.  You have no resistance, and whatever you love appears in your life almost instantaneously.  Your presence will be felt when you walk into a room.   Opportunities will pour into your life, and your slightest touch will dissolve negativity.  You will feel better than you thought it was possible to feel.  You will be filled with unlimited energy, excitement, and an unquenchable zest for life.  You will feel as light as a feather, like you’re floating on air, and everything you love will just seem to fall at your feet.  Fall in love with life, unleash the power within you, and you will become unlimited and invincible!

“The Power”   Rhonda Byrne

The most precious thing is life is Family

“You can be famous or write yourself into history and never available for your kids, or an average person and be the parent who puts his family first and earned their love and respect. Family should be at the core of your mission in life. Family takes precedence over all” Dr. Phil 

I don’t car…e how poor a man is; if he has family, he’s rich. ~Dan Wilcox and Thad Mumford

“When you look at your life, the greatest happiness is family happiness” Dr. Joyce Brothers

Today’s Thought: Happiness

Happiness makes everything else more possible…it attracts greater success in your life, work, relationships, etc.

The very happy moments in life are about connection to ourselves, to each other, to nature, to God. They are “being” moments and have little to do with doing or getting or chasing or searching.  These moments are about intentions, choices, and attitude that you bring to each moment rather than things you hope to find in the moment.

To be happy you have to be willing to face unhappiness.  To be loving, you have to be willing to face fear.  To be successful, you have to be willing to face failure.  Be less afraid of these things.

Happiness is love and love is happiness.

Dr. Robert Holden

Thanks

Thank you to all my friends who have joined this site
 

The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention. ~Oscar Wilde

I can no other answer make, but, thanks, and thanks. ~William Shakespeare

Today’s Thought: Loving Again

“Like a flower, you have to open to the rain and the sunlight”  Colette Baron-Reid

“Love can awaken our biggest fears and insecurities and doubts.  When you’ve lived in a dungeon for a very long time, the light, when you see it, actually hurts your eyes”  Marianne Williamson

“How weak we are when we are not ready to let love rip us open.    Love can transform us ~ it is the key to your prison door”  Marianne Williamson

Today: “The Secret” ~ again

“I could not allow anything to come into my mind that would distract me from my goal and my vision.”   Morris Goodman, The Miracle Man

Almost everything starts from nothing.

Thoughts become things….man becomes what he thinks about.

You have to feel pure love in your heart and when you do you are in harmony with the Universe

There is no limit to human potential

If you do not have the results in your life that are worthy of you, now is the time to change them.

Do what resonates with your heart and let go of what doesn’t feel good.

“All that we are is the result of what we have thought.”  Buddha

Today we are all Japanese

As most of us have been doing for the last week, last night I rushed to check my computer on the status of the tragedy in Japan.  Hoping some miracle may have emerged, I was saddened only to read that the situation with the nuclear plant was worse. I read in depth about the immense hardships the people are having to endure.  It’s difficult to believe such a tragedy could happen in our modern world.

Numb from the thought of how devastating this tragedy is, I then did something I’ve never done before and drifted into the comments under the article.  Reading these comments was exactly what I needed at that moment.  Personally feeling helpless to help the people of Japan I realized after reading the comments that we are helping.  With the deep outpour of love and compassion the world has for them right now, I knew that whatever they needed to overcome, the world would be there for them.  But even more, my faith in mankind was confirmed. That the great majority of people in this world are good humanitarians with love and compassion for all humans no matter race, religion, gender or circumstance. It was a beautiful feeling to read these comments, of which I only copied down a few of the thousands.  It’s at times like these that we realized we are all human first no matter where we live, how we believe, or what our culture is.

I hope these great comments inspire you to feel good about our humanitarian effort and to believe in mankind much more than to doubt them.  Have a great day.

How pitifully small we are compared to nature. How ridiculous our puny and futile feuds when compared with forces like this.
i am only 12, but i see the hardships that these people are going through. i wish everyone and anyone from Japan good luck, and best of hopes to you.
Even while watching with your own eyes, the devestation happening to our
fellow man, the clowns still make jokes. Sad, just sad.  Know this my Japanese brothers, that these cowards are few and do notrepresent America
Its times like this we should all realize were humans, and act like it. Not making racist comments to any race/religion. But to wish this group of people well, health, and a bright future. It doesn’t matter whether you are japanese, jewish, persian, african, or european. In times like this everyone needs to help each other out.
I just wanted to thank everybody who has posted supportive and kind things. It has actually been a great comfort. A mother in Tokyo
After 9/11, the French president declared, ‘today we are all American.’ Today, we are all Japanese.
More power to Japan. let’s forget about racist wars. Let’s think to all ourselves as Humans, Caring and Loving each other.
I’m already on my way to help US MARINES always ready … Help is on the way …
God help those people who are suffering from this disaster, shelter them, feed them, and guide them and look after them they are your children.   also those who you have taken away from this world may their soul rest in peace and open the door of heaven to them.
god bless all those who are living in japan. our prayer is always with them.
I’m praying for all of you. May God Bless all of you!  From California, United States of America
While watching the coverage of the Japanese disaster, one thing stood out. There are no riots or looting, I saw people standing in line to get food or use the telephone and each respected each other and waited patiently.
While reading the posted comments, it was nice to see how much people care but yet some people feel the need to give these comments a thumbs down.
God… have mercy on japan please…
my friends and i here in Ohio are praying for you. God Bless you all. and to the ones leaving negative comments, Shame on you . If it was you in this horrific situation, i doubt if you would be so quick to say anything negative. But we are praying for you also, for God to give you the ability to be compassionate towards your fellow humans.
Definitely bigtime prayers for everyone in Japan!
I’m totally praying for all of the people in Japan, that God will give you the safety and love that you need! Please hang in there!
At time like this the level of concern for one another despite race, color or religion. People of Japan, I wish you a quick restoration.
From Greece Be well people of Japan. As an ex-seaman I know the country and its people.The whole world looks in amazement, what the all- powerfull Nature can do to us, insignificant human beings.
Doesn’t it feel better to care for your fellow man , than to hate him?..
As a Muslim from Jordan, My mind and heart with all japanese people. God will help them to overcome this terriable tragedy. God bless the people of Japan.
I feel so ashamed for complaining about the minuscule hardships in my life; God please help the people of Japan! I thank you for my life and everything that you’ve allowed me to have while I’m on This earth.
The people trying to police up the serious problem of escaping radiation are the real heroes. They willingly walked through deaths door knowing they probably would not come out alive. prayers and kudos to these brave souls .
To Tokyoresident and all in Japan.
There is a saying in Germany –
>>The middle of the night is the beginning of a new day<<
We will stand with you
Millions of Japanese are outside in the freezing cold with no food or water for days yet there are no riots, criminals running about and no looting. HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.Civilization is a wonderful thing.
My thoughts and prayers are with you in Japan, for we do not know what a day holds. It could be us next.
May God bless and comfort you in your time of sorrow.

Happy St. Patricks Day

Happy St. Patrick’s Day

May luck be your companion
May friends stand by our side
May history remind us all
…Of Ireland’s Faith and Pride
May God bless us with happiness
May love and faith abide
Irish Blessing

“A best friend is like a four leaf clover ~ hard to find and lucky to have”
Author Unknown

“Many an opportunity is lost because a man is out looking for four-leaf clovers” Author Unknown